In The End of 21 ;)

Wow, I don't believe it would be the end of March 2013. And that's mean, I'm gonna turn to 22 y'o. Hohoho. I'm feeling old so suddenly by the way. Hahaha Beyond all that, what's the true meaning being old? I mean, being old is a must, but being mature is a choice. Am I mature already? Hmm.. Let's see.

Mature is somehow difficult to explain. I don't even know what's the most important to be mature people. But I think that everybody knew, being mature isn't that easy, right?

I red some post, and I could conclude that mature is about how we act in our daily basic. And there's 3 ways how we can try to be a mature person. of course I use "we" because I know even I haven't become a mature girl yet. Hohohoho

The first part is : Be courteous. In our daily activities it's good for us to use good manners when we interact with another. That would be make a good impress about ourselves. :) And I think, it's good to avoid being a center of attention all the time. All the time, hahaha it could make anyone being arrogant, in my opinion. then, it's good to be a helpful friend for another, because people will always know we are a good people who reliable in all the situation. And the last is, good to accept both compliments and criticism with maturity.

The second part is : Communicate like an adult. I think that could be, controlling our temper when we interact with another people, not saying any curse to anyone. Hahaha, you know, in my viewpoint sometimes people who often cursing something else (or anyone else) isn't mature yet. it's a little childish hahaha there, I always ring a bell to my boy not to curse everything he wants, since he was popular with his "Quotes" when we were at college. :"> So many ways to learn how to communicate to another like, not shouting when we talk, sincerely apologizing, say something polite, STOP Whining when having arguments war with people, Not gossiping another people then said the hurtful things, That's a big NO guys, and last, always tell the truth, but be compassionate. :)

I've tried them all, and when we could control our emotion all the things above is easy to do. ;) Just try it guys, but always remember, being mature isn't always about ACT, but it's about how we think, act, and say. But most of all, STOP pretend, STOP being fake, and BEING whole-hearted when we do it all. :D

The third part is :  Have a Mature Mindset. Nah. Like I've said, our mindset is so important. It could control all the things we said and did. How we could have a mature mindset? The first, always have a positive thinking about another people, and then if someone being unkind to you, be the bigger person. ;) It's difficult, but don't  be tired to try! Beside that, you have to keep your mind open and you could pick your own mature friends. ;)

if you ask me, what kind of ways I used to try to be a grown person? I'll say, When faced with a conflict with others, avoid arguing and instead, try to resolve it in a calm rational manner. If it does escalate to arguing, end it as quickly as possible. I always do that things all the time, being a good listener and smile to everyone. And the last thing, I always set my mind not to complain everything. Hahaha

A few days ago I felt a little irritated with someone. I admit, I rarely feel that way to anyone, but this time, I don't know I just felt that, hmm how should I say, "males" with somebody I know. Hahahaha but this morning, at the church, like always we sing "Salam Damai", and the pastor said when we sing it, we have to be at peace with another. And I realize how I could make my mind not to think about the badness of that people. Right when I realize it, in that time I took a deep breath, and voila! Forgiving another people makes our soul being in peace, not to feel the hate anymore ;) Thanks God. Do you guys have the same experience with me? Try to have a peace in your mind guys, believe me, it works!

Ah I think that's enough with the serious talk. Let's talk about what I got. Hahaha one week ago I did the hair-bonding because my hair went to like a lion's hair since it's about one year I didn't do it. Hohoho But I always choose my own saloon, because the barber already knew I don't want a hair like a sharp grass. :p (I'm sorry if the pictures are getting a lil' blur 'cause I took it with my cellphone camera)

Hahahaha Forgive me, If I became so narsistic, which since I was born, I born as a narsistic person :p I wore my new shirt I bought at The Executive, it's the first long sleeve shirt I bought myself. :p Its color is ivory white and has a good material. ;) Moreover it's on sale!! I like it. ♥ I bought this shirt when I went to Java Mall with my younger sister. She said it's good so that I'm sure to buy it.